When you’ve been downsized, outsourced, laid off, or fired; it can be a challenge to pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and get right back in the game with your self esteem intact. However, returning to the marketplace is a step worth taking as soon as you have your attitude intact.
Research indicates you have less than 11 seconds to make a good first impression...whether it's on paper, over the phone, or in person. Before you apply for a job by filling out an application, or responding to an advertisement, or showing up for an interview, take a few seconds to shape up your self-esteem.
Regardless of what you are feeling when you begin, the following process takes only seconds; can be done in private or in public; and best of all, it works 100% of the time! You already breathe, probably without thinking about it. When you are tense, anxious, or stressed, your breathing responds to your emotions. Rather than the full complete breaths appreciated by your body, when threatened with failure, your respiration shortens, tightens, and increases your tension.
There is good stress that energizes and motivates you. Anticipation of a celebration, an award, or a trip provides excitement. Employment searches usually involve the other kind of stress...the palm sweating, shoulder tightening, and mouth drying nasty nerves.
Use this tool the next time you want to relax. The following three steps improve your outlook, confidence, and chances of getting the employment you seek:
1. draw a deep breath...by expanding your belly
2. purse your lips and exhale the breath slowly
3. finish with a smile...a broad, wide smile
If step three challenges, remember the last time you laughed-out-loud. You will smile when you recall that experience.
Thinking happy thoughts always brings a smile.
Self esteem begins within and expands with a simple expression, a smile. If you express joy on the outside, you will experience happiness on the inside.
Always apply for a position when you feel it within, and to feel it within, express it outside.
By oxygenating your brain, you become smarter, happier, healthier and more confident every time. So, do this mini-refresher before any and every stress situation for a successful outcome.
Tune into WHY.FM...Why Hire You?
To get the job, do your homework, and become the person you would want to hire for that position. Analyze the company, know everything you can about their target market, their place among the competition, their goals and time line to achieve them. Next, look at your assets, experience, qualifications and then join their team in your mind.
Ask yourself what you, and only you, can do for the company?
Keep asking yourself that question until you answer it with enthusiasm. Usually your answer will address the company’s core values and your alignment with them. For instance, if customer service is an element of the business, emphasize your belief in exceeding customer expectations.
Be proactive---tell them why you are the best person for the job.
To Be a Triple AAA Employment Candidate:
As of this moment, stop seeking validation from others about your employability, job worthiness, or skills and abilities.
You become a Triple AAA candidate for employment as soon as you:
Acknowledge your achievements, and
Announce your Assets with pride---
you've earned them, so be proud!
You are not your job, your profession, your career---you are a worthy human being who seeks employment to make your contribution to the world. Attitude is everything when applying for a job.
Attitude isn’t everything---it’s the ONLY thing.
If you care enough to prepare for the interview, care enough about your self to believe you are the right person for the job and are applying at the right time. BELIEVE IT!
Achieve the attitude to enhance your chances of employment through visualizing the “best” outcome for the interview. Notice, I didn’t say an offer of a job, I said the best outcome for you. Perhaps this isn’t the perfect job for you at this time, perhaps there is a better job for you at the next interview, or the next, or the next. Visualize a positive experience, a good presentation, a favorable impression on the interviewer, because every employment event contributes to your confidence, your technique, and your potential for getting the best offer from the best company for you.
Once you are aware of the job you want; before applying, interviewing, or calling on it, take the time for an attitude check. It’s not about that particular position, it’s about attracting the position right for you---if this one is the one, then you’ll get an offer of employment.
If you don’t receive an appropriate offer, it is not about you, rather it’s not the right position for you right now. There will be another, better opportunity...if your attitude is optimistic, hopeful, and “attractive”... you will attract the right offer for the right job at the right time.
By Marlene George,
Business & Wellness Consultant, Counselor, and Coach.
Contact: Marlene George
Saturday, 30 April 2016
Since the dawn of humankind, mothers have played an incredibly important role in our lives. Our mom is one of the first people that we learn to trust. We are intimately familiar with her heartbeat after spending months cradled right next to it. Her voice is what calms our fears and soothes us back to sleep at night. Moms care for us and love us in a way that no one else can match. Mothers are ultimately the source of our lives.
With all that our moms have done for us, it can seem difficult to think up ways that we can say thank you around Mother’s Day. Our moms would do anything and everything for us... is there anything that would be worthy to say thanks for such a thing?
It’s actually quite simple. Give your mom some of your time this Mother’s Day. Arrange to have a surprise visit. Bring the whole family! Take the time to cook and then enjoy a meal as a team. Share laughs and stories.
Sometimes, the most valuable gift that you can give someone is your time, but that especially applies to mothers. Let her know that you love her back. Share some quality time with the whole family this Mother’s Day, and see what a difference it can make in her life.
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Written by Veronika for Motivational Moments
Monday, 21 March 2016
Spring has sprung! It’s barely the middle of March, and already things have started warming up outside. With this change of the seasons hitting us, it may be time to do a bit of spring cleaning.
Spring cleaning your life is a bit more difficult than just scrubbing down the shelves and windows in your home. When applied to your life, the theory of “cleaning it out” can be significant (how much are you willing to change?) and at times, quite terrifying. But it’s easier than you think!
Spring cleaning your life can be as simple as getting rid of unwanted clutter, so start small. Try things like decluttering your mind of negative emotions or thoughts, improving your diet so that you’re living healthier, or getting rid of the physical clutter in your space. Bring more positivity into your life through things like using positive affirmations, treating yourself more kindly, or volunteering in your community. Basically, all you are doing is removing the negative things, and replacing them with better, more positive-feeling things
If you really want to go all in with this project, try things like assessing your relationships to remove the ones that no longer serve your life currently. And if you want to start afresh with a clean slate and a clear mind this new season, one of the best things you can do is to get your finances in order. Make a plan to save money. You can do it.
The time for change is now.
Written by Veronika for Motivational Moments
Tuesday, 23 February 2016
March is a very special month because it brings so many things. Most people look forward to the change in weather, the snow starts to melt and the sun starts peaking through the clouds a little more frequently but the most important thing is it brings new beginnings. Some of you will face pain, suffering, hard choices but you can’t let the weight of it choke the joy out of your life. No matter what, you have to find the things that love you. Run to them. There’s an old saying – that which doesn’t kill you makes you stronger, I don’t believe that. I think the things that try to kill you make you angry and sad. Strength comes from the good things, your family, your friends, the satisfaction of hard work. Those are the things that will keep you whole, those are the things to hold onto when you’re broken. So this year make the most of it, hold on to all the good and let go of the bad. Never forget that this spring, this year is your time to shine and make the most of every situation.
Written by Elizabeth for Motivational Moments
Monday, 1 February 2016
Valentine’s Day isn’t just about loving a spouse or a significant other but the love one has between them and another person. Whether it be a mother and son, father and daughter or two friends.
“I love you” means that I accept you for the person that you are, and that I do not wish to change you into someone else. It means that I will love you and stand by you even through the worst of times. It means loving you even when you’re in a bad mood, or too tired to do the things I want to do. It means loving you when you’re down, not just when you’re fun to be with. “I love you” means that I know your deepest secrets and do not judge you for them, asking in return that you do not judge me for mine. It means that I care enough to fight for what we have and that I love you enough not to let go. It means thinking of you, dreaming of you, wanting and needing you constantly, and hoping you feel the same way for me.
Love Is one of those things we all need, it’s a necessity to survive, just like air is to us. So when you are given something so precious, hold on to it and cherish it.
Written by Elizabeth for Motivational Moments
Wednesday, 25 November 2015
Have you noticed? The seasons have definitely been changing again. The leaves are turning a hundred different shades of reds, oranges and yellows. The days are getting crisper and cooler. The air is definitely starting to feel distinctly more autumn-like. Before we know it, Christmas will be here!
Although this changing of the seasons happens four times each year, I wonder how many people see this time of transition as a time when they have the opportunity (as individuals) to re-vamp and change themselves?
It’s easier than you might think to achieve lasting change. Change is an ongoing process, and it is always something that you are going to have to work at. But the fact of the matter is that, in the end, it will always be worth it.
Goal achievement is not as difficult to accomplish as many people seem to think. There are a few simple steps that need to be followed to achieve this, but if you follow through with them, you WILL achieve your goals!
So I know many people who wanted to know the exact formula to use to succeed in achieving their goals surrounding bettering themselves. Well, here you go! Follow these steps to achieve a better-functioning life:
1. It all starts with doing an honest assessment of where your weakest areas are in life: look for things that make you a little uncomfortable… things that seem to have rougher edges… things that you think you might like to change. I’m going to state something radical here – these areas of weakness can become the areas from which you will eventually draw the greatest strength. You just need to learn how to better channel your energies and efforts
- What are your current goals? What are you working on in life? If you aren’t quite sure, then this is a step that you need for sure!
- This is often a tough step for people, because many usually don’t want to face the truths of these areas that they see as weakness. These are not bad weak areas! They are simply areas that you can improve in.
3) Get it down on paper: write down the list of your goals and deadlines. Make sure that those dates also make it onto your calendar where you can see them often. Then look at them. Memorize them. Commit them to heart so that it will be easier to achieve them on time
- Making sure that you can see your list of goals often is important, so don’t skip this step! Seeing your goals helps make them more real and tangible
Whether you seize this opportunity and work on tweaking the small details of your personality or if you let it pass you by altogether, I would be willing to bet that even you can think of one or two things that you know you would like to work on. Maybe we all need to be doing an assessment on where the areas are in our lives that need fine tuning, and then making an honest effort to go do it.
Achieving your goals is easier than most people seem to think. All it really takes is clear vision, a little bit of courage, and a whole lot of drive. You CAN reach those dreams! You WILL reach those goals! Have a little faith and you just might surprise yourself.
Thursday, 15 October 2015
Are you familiar with the idea of the Greater Good? The Greater Good is a concept that I believe needs to be considered more often these days. Too many times, people drift through their days, just going through the motions, without any passion for what they are doing or enjoyment in the process. They rarely pay attention to how their actions will impact the world around them… but even the littlest actions can have a huge impact!
What would you do if you encountered someone who was clearly having a rough day and you had the opportunity to help? Would you step out of your comfort zone and do it? Would you make that difference?
You may not believe it (and you may not even get to witness the immediate impact), but strong communities are created by building up the people as well as their physical structures. To me, an ideal community is one where people know their neighbours. The kids can play outside as the adults chat over coffee on the patio. People acknowledge each other in the streets with a smile and it is a comfortable-feeling place to live. But it all starts with just one simple stepping out of your way to go and introduce yourself. Compliment the people across the street on their garden next spring. Offer to help them carry their groceries in from the car. Shovel the snow off their walkway without saying anything. Just try to make friends and you might surprise yourself with how easy it actually is.
It all ties together
People rarely realize it, but everything that we do has an impact on the world as a whole. For every action, there is a reaction. You’ve heard that saying about what would happen if someone were to go back in time and squash a ladybug? Monumental consequences could result from what seems to be just a small, insignificant action. So always think before you do or say something… what could result from this? How will this action impact the world?
You may be surprised how much things change with even just this small consideration.
Just do it!
I know that it is more common for the average North American to shy away from the opportunities where we are given a chance to make a difference… but we need to stop doing that. We need to get out there, get involved, make that difference and ultimately change the world!
I want to challenge you this week… go out of your way to make someone else’s day better! Get out of your comfort zone and make that difference in the world!
Written by Elizabeth for Motivational Moments